Have Fun!

I read a comic book today. Master Cooking Boy. Very interesting and funny story =) There was one part in the story that was telling a story about an old cooking master who was very famous and honored. He sort of said, "Don't give up! I'm 80 years old, and I feel my life has just begun! You gotta have that kind of passion and spirit in life!"

Gee... 80 years old and he felt his life has just begun! That's what I feel too... my life has just begun at 30. There are so many thing I wanna do, so many thing I CAN DO in fact.. where was I all these times??! Anyway, I have heard couple of times from my friends who complained about their lives... they got married and they felt trapped. They wanted to do many things but they couldn't, because they had family to consider of. Even my friend's mom who has already been 50 years old still think that being single is so much fun and exciting! =P

What an irony... single people want to be married, married people want to be single again.. So i guess, all i can do now is just being grateful for being what i am at this moment. Single and available =P... Stop looking for the right guy (WHERE R U EXACTLY NOW???) and focus on making myself fulfilled and satisfied by enjoying this life to the max.

HOW? Well, i have some passion and desires in my heart i have been wanting so long to do. I looove to write and wanna be a writer, so i can start being one from now on. I've been writing some song lyrics, and that is cool. At least i have taken a first step (remember? A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step...) Not just lyrics, i wanna write movie script and novels too! hehehe.... ^_^ Not just that, i have a deep desire to learn mandarin and japanese.. so i just gotta go for it!

You know what makes me happy and fulfilled? It's when i can bring good impact in others' lives, make a difference in others... make them feel better and happier. It's when I play the song i wrote, and people love it.. even got encouraged after hearing it. It's when I show my short story to my friends, and they enjoy reading it... It's when I talked to some small kids and they listened to me eagerly with their big wide eyes opened... Those simple moments, but have brought so much fulfillment into my heart.

It's not when i've won a pitching (i'm in advertising agency) or have designed a great logo... I still feel empty. That explains why i felt so stucked right now at work =(

Anyway... i have found a reason to be happy as a single gal. So, all the single gals out there... don't pressure ourselves too much. Enjoy this single life. Do something we've always wanna do and love. Go fitness. Give yourself a new make-over. Take a dance class. Go for a tour. Cook and give it to your neighbors. Volunteer. Try rock climbing and rafting (i tried these.. so FUN! ). Do something new we've never tried before. Go to Kinokuniya or any favorite bookstore (there are so many intersting books there!) Improve your talents. Paint. Learn a new hobby. Don't just watch TV (this what i've been learning to do too... i've addicted to TV =(...) Laugh a lot.

Have fun as much as we can, coz when we got married... we might can't do those things anymore...Don't throwing put our precious single life by worrying and doing nothing.

Gee.. i feel like giving a speech here =P.... too excited.. hehhehe.